It seems like so much drama on Twitter revolves around Caitlin Beadles. She didn’t tweet for 5 days, and we didn’t hear a peep or see a tweet complaining about her, but last night, when she returned to tweeting, some shitaki mushrooms hit the fan…and created a whole big mess.
She tweeted Justin’s personal Twitter “Miss you. Love you. k bye. =]]” Now if that wasn’t both obvious and obnoxious, we don’t know what is. It’s clear that it’s his account, if you look at the people he’s following and who’s following him, and we’ve known about this account since last spring when we stumbled upon it. However, when you can call, text, iChat, email, etc. him, why tweet him? That’s just obnoxious. You might tweet your friend “your default picture is really cute!” But you don’t tweet “I just randomly wanted to tell you that I love you and I miss you so much.” Well, you could tweet that, but that’s a bit of a heavy conversation for 140 characters. We think the point of that tweet was just a cutesy little “hi” to Justin, but it was so unnecessary. Not because we care about even the possibility of Justin and Caitlin dating again, because we couldn’t care less, but because we realize how much drama it starts when people begin to speculate about the extent of their relationship.
To the people freaking about though about Justin’s personal account being found, it’s really not THAT big of a deal. Twitter follow requests just stay on the sidebar, so he doesn’t even have to respond to them. Plus, if he created a new one, it’s not hard to tell a handful of people that he made a new Twitter account. It’s really not that serious. On a lighter note, who thinks it’s hilarious that Justin’s default is a picture of Tiger Woods that says “Just Do Her” with the Nike check? We LOLed when we saw that’s what he made his default picture.
Anyways, to the FANS reading this, here’s your wake up call. Newsflash: if they are dating, so what? Does anyone tell you that you can’t date the guys you date? No. There’s a .000000148% chance that you’ll ever date Justin, so why interfere with his relationships that might actually work? You can think whatever you want about Caitlin, just like we have our own opinion on her, and whether she craves attention or not, at the end of the day you can’t change the fact of the matter that her and Justin are good friends…or maybe even more.
Also, to the people saying “but Scooter JUST said that Justin was single!” Uh, were you born yesterday? It’s part of the appeal of a teenage guy in the industry to be “single”. For musicians these days, money is really in touring, not in album sales. Think about it: wouldn’t you rather go to a concert knowing (or thinking that you know) that the artist is single? Don’t deny it. We all know that most of you dream of getting lucky and somehow getting to meet Justin and making him magically fall in love with you. That’s also why you buy tickets to multiple concerts, to make your “chances” better. (Crazy how some of you guys can buy tickets to multiple shows, but not CDs at a buyout, but whatever.)
However, chances are that that’s never going to happen, and you’re not going to see Justin in concert and become the sun that he orbits around. How many of you guys were fans of the Jonas Brothers? Back in 2007 we talked to the guys multiple times, even while Nick and Miley were breaking up in December of 2007, and while the rest of their fans were like “oh no, Nick and Miley definitely aren’t dating”, we knew for a fact that they were dating and were on the verge of breaking up.
You’re a fan because you like his music and you like his skill set as an artist. You’re NOT a fan because he has perfect hair and a Range Rover named Lisa. You’re a fan to buy albums, see him on tour, and show you’re support of him. You’re NOT a fan to throw out your Uggs because he doesn’t like them or to try and develop a sense of humor since he likes “funny girls”.
As a fan, a celebrity doesn’t really owe you the truth. They have no interpersonal relationship with you. Face it: you just pay their bills. They may appreciate the lifestyle that you’ve afforded them, but at the end of the day that doesn’t mean that they’re going to tell you their deep, dark secrets about their personal lives. It’s personal for a reason. Look at it this way: Caitlin is part of Justin’s personal life, the fan reading this is part of Justin’s professional life. Although the lines may cross sometime, it doesn’t mean he owes you anything. He’s not going to tell you if he’s dating Caitlin, face it. So if they are dating, hooray. If they’re not, who cares? At the end of the day, hating Caitlin isn’t going to change her attitude, outlook, or relationship with Justin. While you hate on her she can call him up on the phone and tell him a Chuck Norris joke. So you might as well just give up your “cause”, because all the effort you’re doing to hate her and break her is just going in vain, whether you like it or not.