Has Justin Changed?

28 Jul

Lately Bieber fans have been taking sides on the big question that many of you all wonder: “has Justin Bieber changed?” We’ve heard of him being rude to people at meet and greets and when he runs into fans randomly, and everyone of course talks about how he doesn’t tweet as many personal things as he used to anymore.

On one hand, Justin has a certain right to be guarded. Everyone thinks fame is living the life, and that there’s no reason to ever be upset when you’re famous, but that’s not the case. If anything, fame makes you more vulnerable than you’d be originally. Do you guys realize that everyday Justin has fans literally chasing him, trying to kiss him, and asking questions that really aren’t their business? Wouldn’t you feel defensive too if one day guys just randomly came up to you and tried to kiss you when you gave them a hug or chased you down for a picture when you’re just trying to shop? There’s a certain amount of space needed to not suffocate from the exposure. You guys hear about his life on the radio, on Twitter, through his friends, and on TV. A person can only make themselves so vulnerable until it becomes unhealthy and the lifestyle is no longer fun. Look how many teen stars, and adult stars on top of it, have lost it all because they just couldn’t take it anymore? We’re not implying that Justin doesn’t love his job, his fans, or his lifestyle. We’re just saying that there are certain times where he just wants space to be a kid.

On the other hand, it isn’t right to be rude to fans, and we know you all have heard stories about that being the case. We know that you guys paid upwards of $300 for your soundcheck tickets and don’t appreciate short, curt answers from him. We know that some of you guys worked really hard to win meet and greet passes. And we know it sucks after all that effort to have a bad experience. That by no means is okay. We totally understand the “we pay all Justin’s bills and buy all his stuff by supporting him” mentality. We get that it’s frustrating when he’s rude, even through DMs to you guys.

To the people that doubt that Justin sends rude DMs though, you need to get out of La La Land, it’s corrupting your mind into mindless ignorance. We’ve seen DMs from fans that have emailed us that say mean things and sometimes even swear words. So don’t think Justin is perfect and does no wrong; it’s not true.

Complaining that Justin’s tweets aren’t personal enough are just ridiculous. First off, he tweets more than basically any other celebrity on Twitter, and second off, his tweets are personal sometimes. He tells you guys what he’s doing and who he’s hanging out with. Isn’t that enough? Because some of you guys seem to want him to tweet about him brushing his teeth and tying his shoes as if those are some special actions that only Justin Bieber can do.

If you’re really upset about Justin’s behavior don’t spread drama. It’s a choice to be a fan, not an obligation. If it hurts you that much, remove yourself from being that attached to him. He makes mistakes, whether they’re right or not. It’s your decision to make to choose whether or not you should be a fan of his, it’s not his job to convince you. So the pity tweets to him need to stop. He’s not going to tweet/DM you saying “I’m sorry I’m a jerk at meet and greets and get frustrated with fans easily. Please still be my fan.” So if that’s what you want, don’t get your hopes up.

Do you guys realize that if you were out enjoying summer this drama wouldn’t start? But instead you guys sit on Twitter, gossip, start fights with each other, and complain. How ridiculous is that? We didn’t even hear about this drama till this morning because guess what we were doing last night when this was happening? Enjoying our summer with friends. Get off Twitter and enjoy your friends, your family, and the warm weather, and stop stressing yourself out about a guy hundreds of miles away from you who’s doing just that and living his dream on top of it, and his swarms of fans. Live your life and just have fun. Twitter drama is just unnecessary stress in your life.

Justin is 16, he makes rash decisions that mess up his relationships with people, in this case his fans, just like we do everyday when we say something we don’t mean to someone we care about in the heat of the moment. His actions aren’t right, but they’re not a lethal crime either. Forgive him and accept that he’s a normal teenager who messes up or keep acting like he’s Mary, the Mother of Jesus who does no wrong, and choose not to forgive him over this. It’s up to you, but either way, save the drama for your mama.

Love&Light,
BH.

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58 Responses to “Has Justin Changed?”

  1. JustSayin`! July 28, 2010 at 5:02 pm #

    Amen! People and their “idols”. Smh.

  2. ky July 28, 2010 at 5:04 pm #

    Couldn’t have said it better myself…Thank you for posting this. He must get annoyed with those crazies.

  3. prudence July 28, 2010 at 5:05 pm #

    i think we should all cut him some sluck !!! he’s just a teenager who’s known by the whole world so of course he cant get to all his fans ,i except that he may never follow me or notice me but i’m not gonna stop liking him course af that.he has thousands of fans who want him to notice them so i dont mind that the fame and the pressure as getting to him all he needs is our love and support.

  4. Isabel Ybarra July 28, 2010 at 5:06 pm #

    This LOONG message is very true. (: He’s just a normal teenage kid living his dream and having fun!I’m 13 and I do like him but I’m not one of those fans who chases him and screams his name when they see him…I would treat him like my friend. 😉 ~Isabel Ybarra ❤

  5. Cillalala July 28, 2010 at 5:08 pm #

    Get off Twitter and enjoy your friends, your family, and the warm weather, and stop stressing yourself out about a guy hundreds of miles away from you who’s doing just that and living his dream on top of it, and his swarms of fans

    THANK YOU.
    Boyyy did some people need to hear that.

  6. Liv July 28, 2010 at 5:08 pm #

    what did he say to ppl on DM? R you allowed to publish it or does those fans who send u it to u dont want u to do it?
    In case u ARE allowed to publish it,would you please e-mail it to me? I’ll totally understund if its not possible or if you just dont want to. But I would really apprciate if you would take your time:)
    Love your blog and appreciate all the work yall put to it!:)

    • Ireishka July 28, 2010 at 5:41 pm #

      I would like to know tooo. If it’s possible what exactly has he said in the dm’s?

      • dezlovesbieber July 31, 2010 at 2:14 am #

        I would too.. Please post it if you can!

  7. Isabel Ybarra July 28, 2010 at 5:10 pm #

    I hope you’re doing ok if you’re reading this Justin 🙂

  8. JustSayin`! July 28, 2010 at 5:12 pm #

    They forqet he’s a human and that’s ridiculous. I bet some of them would think his fart is the coolest and the best thinq ever. If Jb said, “I pick my nose and eat my boogers and I think it’s pretty cool to do.” Some of them would probably think that was the cutest and funniest thinq ever. Smh. Point is he has his ups and downs because he’s HUMAN, not a robot. Stop treatinq him like a God.

  9. shannon July 28, 2010 at 5:14 pm #

    Thank you so much for doing this!!! I’m so tired of ‘twitter drama’ over this. If anything, it makes me happy to that people are finally seeing he is a a human being! Nobody is perfect and it honestly makes me appreciate the fact that he took the time out to meet some of us fans even though he didn’t have time to talk. Yes he asked for the fame, but not for the disrespect many girls give him. He’s allowed to hve some privacy people…

  10. Gabby July 28, 2010 at 5:19 pm #

    Look with this u are hurting people , of course he sometimes make mistakes but thats no reason for stop being a “belieber” (fans of him) it our choise okay? And u don’t have to write this like telling the people what to do and what don’t do , We love him and we support him in every thing he do and seriously I don’t care if hes brushing his teeth every teenager do that , hes normal and u don’t have any reason for including Mary (the mother of jesus) and play with her name , we DO WHAT U WANT AND WHEN WE WANT OKAY ITS OUR CHOISE , STOP TELLING PEOPLE WHAT TO DO!
    WE LOVE BIEBER AND WE ALWAYS WILL SUPPORT HIM!

    • JustSayin`! July 29, 2010 at 10:13 am #

      You’ve totally missed the WHOLE point and twisted it, Smh

    • rawan x July 29, 2010 at 11:36 am #

      if you were a “fan” you wouldve have to stalk him everywhere and ask him the MOST personal questions ever
      okay maybe he likes girls, but that doesnt mean its gnna be okay for every single girl to ask him the most personal stuff .. BIEBERHEIRESS ARENT TRYING TO TELL YOU TO COMPLETELY HATE HIM AND BE SUCH AN ENEMY TO HIM. not at all, all their trying to say, is to stop stalking him everywhere, screaming..and asking him those personal stuff..i mean, i dont think you’d like it if a random guy or girl asked u for ur skype, emil address, phone number, nd the most personal questions ever. if u CARED about justin’s feelings u would’ve understood the whole point of the article. just get someone to read it for you and explain, i dont think u’ll ever understand
      WE SUPPORT BIEBER TOO 🙂
      AND WE LOVE HIM MORE THAN YOU DO.

  11. Abbie July 28, 2010 at 5:37 pm #

    Id have to agree, obviously we cannot expect him to tweet about every little thing he does, or else it would simply not possible for him to do all the things he does:L, and for those who thinks he is a saint, HE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT, he does teenage things like everyone else. Lets not be idiots, when he says taht he loves being followed about, i very much doupt he does. SO lets quit with the stalkerness 🙂 love love :Dx

  12. Alexandra July 28, 2010 at 5:37 pm #

    I can’t believe what’s going on with bieber fans today its like they 4got that we are all humans and that we all can 4get what is right from wrong

  13. justin lover July 28, 2010 at 5:44 pm #

    you know what, even though justin has a reason to be guarded given his status and fame, he chose the lifestyle that he has now. and he has to live with all of the consequences that relate to that.

    • Bianca August 2, 2010 at 4:02 pm #

      Well, “Justin Lover” your name just shows that you are an obsessed and delusional maniac and yet your statement makes him sound like a bad guy. Yes, he chose that lifestyle. But seriously, if people bombarded you with personal questions, strangers tried to kiss you, your friends get death threats, etc. wouldn’t you get fed up every now and then? He’s a TEEN. He isn’t a grown man. But even if he was, I doubt he’d be able to handle everything so easily.

  14. Danielle July 28, 2010 at 6:25 pm #

    I totally agree. He’s still human and he has the right to be a normal teenager! Live your life and stop being so obsessed with him. And even he twit you or he talk with you, or you met him, is nearly impossible to take you on his tour, or give up to his life for you.

    And again, you’re right! He will never ever beg you to be his fan.

    But I still love him and appreciate him for his strength!
    I will never be able to life like this.

    I adore you Bieber!
    Keep singing ‘cuz you’re good at this:)

    Love&Care
    Danielle

  15. Holly July 28, 2010 at 6:36 pm #

    Finally! Someone speaks the truth in
    a way that everyone can understand! Read and learn!! Thank you bieberheiress 🙂

  16. sarah July 28, 2010 at 8:34 pm #

    some of these people’s stories are just pathetic. i mean yes, justin says those things in dms, but also they say he says things that he wouldn’t say, not because he’s perfect but because he’s smart. justin’s got a brain, he knows that when being famous EVERYTHING can get out, and that his rep could be ruined in a snap. he wouldn’t say so much shit to fans, but also if you were at a meet and great where you had to sign hundreds of autographs and hundreds of pictures with people screaming in your face, yea, not so fun. i know someone close to justin and they said justin only does meet and greets with 10-20 people at a time because he used to do ones with hundreds of people, but he couldn’t handle it anymore because people were screaming in his face and trying to pet his hair and a bunch of other crap. he’s a freaking 16 year old boy, don’t blame him for being moody sometimes. he’s a kid, not superman. people need to build a bridge and get over it, just because he’s famous doesn’t mean he’s perfect, and i think that y’all understand that. he’s a kid, he does stupid things, says rude things, and sometimes, he doesn’t regret it. people get on his nerves, can you blame him? nope. people probably get on your nerves all the time so everyone saying “justin’s an asshole, he wouldn’t take a picture with me,” should shut up. i bet if they were in his position they’d probably loose it, i mean look at what happened to half these famous people. they turn to drugs and a bunch of other things. some people need to get over the fact that he’s not always going to be nice, and he’s not always going to want to take pictures with people who SCREAM IN HIS FACE. it pisses me off when people are like, “justin’s changed!” i’m just like “no, he hasn’t changed, but his fans have gone crazy which probably annoys him.” i mean, if i were justin i’d be like “no, im sorry i dont want to take a picture, i just ran from 40 screaming girls, did a concert, meet and greet, and im extremely tired, leave me alone please.”

  17. someone July 28, 2010 at 10:22 pm #

    i agree so much! thank you guys for posting this. people need to stop freaking acting like he’s god or whatever. he’s a normal freaking teen that is rude sometimes like we all are!! its just that when we are rude to someone, the whole freaking world doesnt know about it. uugh some fans need to fucking chill. i’m still gonna support justin

  18. annettesings July 28, 2010 at 10:27 pm #

    Amen to that oh and the protesting business basicically started with this youtube video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EiU55n7rp38 warning very frightening threats made to jb and his beliebers …

  19. Taylor July 28, 2010 at 11:15 pm #

    We do so much for him the least he could do is take a picture with us , it only takes 40 sec. He was pretty rude to me…

    • Mikayla July 31, 2010 at 7:52 am #

      do you expect him do something for you because you did something for him? how selfish. I know where your coming from, but you have to realize he is still a kid. If you put yourself in his shoes, you’d feel the same way. give him a little space.

    • noelle August 2, 2010 at 5:37 pm #

      40 seconds per every 6778654564768 people . . . it adds up. hes just a kid!

    • V August 3, 2010 at 1:39 am #

      What did he do too u?

  20. Becky July 28, 2010 at 11:54 pm #

    I love how you tell it like it is. Couldn’t have said it better myself 😀 great job!

  21. apple July 29, 2010 at 12:22 am #

    i AGREE with all of u he is only human. Also but what he says is not the nicest i seen it before and i must admit i feel bad for them, BUT he does make mistakes and it is not a big deal. He did curse at them i will admit but they were being nusey

  22. mayoiyori July 29, 2010 at 1:26 am #

    I’ve never gotten a DM from JB but maybe he HAS the right to do this because fans get too crazy sometimes. Like that Arizona Segway thing. He’s claustrophobic and they probably knew that but they got psycho and surrounded him, i would DM rude comments too if i was trapped like that. But what confuses me is that, I THOUGHT YA’LL SAID THAT SOMETIMES IT WASN’T HIM TWEETING????????

    • publicdolphin July 30, 2010 at 12:29 am #

      Agreed. We all have that one friend who goes on our Facebook, Twitter etc and messages random people writing a bunch of crap. It’s funny how people think Justin doesn’t. Ryan and Chaz aren’t angels, lol.

  23. B July 29, 2010 at 1:38 am #

    I’m not saying I don’t believe you. I mean, come on with some of the weird, creeper “fans” of Justin we can’t blame him for getting frustrated. But, is there anyway you could post some proof os the DM’s? I mean, it’s just a little bit hard to believe that he would cuss.

    ❤ Your blog.

    • tammy July 31, 2010 at 2:07 am #

      Justin’s not an angel,he’s only human,he does,very rarely because of his image,curse sometimes. 😛

    • M October 6, 2010 at 11:08 pm #

      how is it “hard to believe that he would cuss”? he’s 16! most 11-year-olds swear like truck drivers (aka swear A LOT.)

  24. Beast July 29, 2010 at 1:51 am #

    I understand where Justin’s coming from .. he has miliions of fans .. theres thousnads of them going to meet and greets and concerts and stuff and there screaming his name and stuff its seriously annyoing . im a big fan and all but these other bieber fans need to chill .. like why do you think he gets annoyed all the time . you guys need to calm and act chill . i know it might be hard .. but he’ll like you betteer. And i dont think he has changed hes a 16 yr old boy hes loving this life and hes greatful .. he thanks his fans everyday and says he loves them . yes at time he can be super cocky but he does seem like a good kid . leave him alone .

  25. akon July 29, 2010 at 2:02 am #

    ur so right. like wtf is with drama.

  26. cuuddddaaa July 29, 2010 at 2:13 am #

    some fans are being SO dumb about this whole thing…and his whole life too.
    UH DUH he’s gonna change! He’s a freaking superstar now…u can’t be the same humble person forever. shoot i except a gift or something when i get good grades…i would definitly except someone to get me some fly jordans or something right now if i was famous. plus hes a GUY if ur not hot why should he try and start converstation? 16-YEAR-OLD-BOY. AKA. WANTS ASS.

    EVERYONE NEEDS A BLUNT…AND CHILL BRO..JUST LIKE JUSTIN DOES FOR DEALIN WITH SOME OF U CRAZY ASSES.

    one love though. hahah

  27. cuuddddaaa July 29, 2010 at 2:14 am #

    oh and btw, his friends are hootttt….

    whats cookin ryan and chaz.

  28. guess! ;) July 29, 2010 at 2:31 am #

    thats what ilike about u ppl…u don’t really gossip u set things straight…thank u

  29. werkit July 29, 2010 at 3:49 am #

    i agree with cuuddddaaa and i agree with u too bieberheiress i mean this is y i would be horrified to be famous people wont let you grow up someday im pretty sure justin’s guna be talkin bout sex in ALLLL his songs maybe not now but someday and the rudeness i can believe that but if some1 was on my ass 24/7 i would have an atittude too i wouldnt show it but i would have 1 hes under alot of pressure ppl need to get off his balls and let him be dont go up to him askin personal questions it aint nun ya bizz if it waz u would know but i mean i am a fan and yeah i can see hes change but i aint complaining it seems the same in my pov so ppl just let it go and all the twitter drama is BS all over nothin we need to stop i support justin and his music and u should too

    -Werkit

  30. Lauren July 29, 2010 at 4:55 am #

    “or keep acting like he’s Mary, the Mother of Jesus who does no wrong” lmfao, i love you guys. This is soooo true. He makes mistakes and says things he doesnt always mean. Just like we do with our parents and friends alllll the time. People over react so much, it’s really unessecary and annoying. How would you feel if the whole world was judging every move you make and every word that comes out of your mouth?! You can’t tell me that after getting fed up after a long day of hard work that you wouldn’t say a couple of rude things that you deep down don’t mean. GET OVER IT PEOPLE! HES A NORMAL HUMAN BEING WHO MAKES MISTAKES, IT HAPPENS. WE ALL DO IT. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES. Awesome blog, keep it up!<3

  31. Allie July 29, 2010 at 7:33 am #

    I agree with everything bieber heriess has to say. They are amazing. People need to stop obsessing.

  32. CRIPPLE July 29, 2010 at 10:27 am #

    well said.

  33. Nina C. July 29, 2010 at 12:21 pm #

    Is there any way you could provide proof of the DMs? Just to make your post more believable.

    Also, I think the fame’s changed him, not necessarily in a bad way, though. He can’t meet 300 fans at once. You’re dreaming if you think he’ll do that or be happy when a girl’s screaming in his face. He’s become more SELF-AWARE.

    On the other hand, on the YouTube video “The Star of Stratford Before He Was Famous (Justin Bieber)”, the first page of comments from two years ago are calling him “cocky”, a jerk, ect. And I’ve heard a LOT of people in Stratford hate him. You would never hear that about the Jonas Brothers, just saying.

    Also, does he have to constantly tweet that he’s thankful for everything. Maybe it’s a management thing he’s told to do, but it comes off as really ingenuine (?).

    But, alas, I’m still a fan. I appreciate he’s not fake and he can still be a kid.

  34. Manda July 29, 2010 at 2:19 pm #

    Oh people, just chill.
    I mean if justin is rude to fans for that few unfaithful moments, you cant just use it and put a tag on him saying “you’ve change” . Probably he was rude to his fans, because he was having a rough day and maybe he was tired… tell me girls… when you get tired, dont you get all faustrated and annoyed too? He is a human too..we cant blame it all on him.

    And able tweeting personal stuffs, yes, i do agree that he doesnt tweet that much anymore.. but have it ever crossed your mind that he is a worldwide celebrity and he is a human… thus, he deserves some privacy? imagined if he were to tweet something wrong, and before he knows it… it gets spread throughout the world… as a celebrity thats the worse thing that could ever happen to you. So please spare a thought for him & his private life.

    Also, about him dming people rude stuffs, probably he was just fooling around or that person made him really pissed. I mean who doesnt swear(even a little) when you get all worked up?

    To end it all, i hope all fans would be able to stay calm and not accuse justin of doing things that he might not have done. Not only will it ruin his reputation but it’ll also spoil his image.
    Justin said numerous of times that he loves, treasures and is grateful to ALL his fans.

    We’re all Beliebers, lets just create peace and harmony.
    Love. Support Justin for who he is.

    XOXO

  35. Jenny Mwaura July 29, 2010 at 3:47 pm #

    i read this & i could not agree more! like this is what i think ALL THE TIME. yes i’m a justin bieber fan but i’m not obsessive. like he does have the right to have a line between his fans, & his personal life. the boy needs SPACE! he’s JUST A NORMAL KID that can sing & is famous for it okay?! it’s his job! you guys act like if you touch him something will magically happen. you think he’s like God or something. like he doesn’t have special boogers or sweat or hair. (although i have to say he has gorgeous hair) 😉 he’s NORMAL! give him space if he wants to tell you something he will, if he doesn’t then let it slide! stop bombarding him with stuff that he’s obviously not in his comfort zone!!!!

  36. Hannah July 29, 2010 at 8:08 pm #

    “Because some of you guys seem to want him to tweet about him brushing his teeth and tying his shoes as if those are some special actions that only Justin Bieber can do.”

    hahahaha, this was the best blog I’ve read yet. Some of these girls need to be smacked over the head and reminded that Justin isn’t Jesus…

  37. publicdolphin July 29, 2010 at 11:26 pm #

    I agree with everything except for the bit about the DM’s. Do you know how easy it is for people to edit those things? So easy that he doesn’t even have to DM you for you to generate a fake one. It’s also very simple to make it look like a screenshot. Don’t believe everything you read. Justin is a smart dude, like he’s actually going to send a mean DM to a fan with profanity(and no, I’m not yelling at Bieber Heiress). It just isn’t solid proof. But yes, you are very right. People need to stop making those unnecessary TwitLongers complaining about how he’s changed. Of COURSE he’s going to change–he’s growing up. Plus, people have some nerve to be complaining about him being rude. Nobody can say that they’ve never been rude, especially us girls who act like b!tches while PMSing. You never know what is going on in his life that makes him act the way he does. We all have bad days. But seriously, those TwitLongers are so annoying. Do you really need to announce to the whole world that “Justin has changed?” Can’t you just keep it to yourself or discuss it with some friends? Plus, you have to realize, people who don’t like Justin are making fake fan accounts and make up some of those stories to make him lose fans(Eg, TheBieberNazis, who want to kill the poor dude and are starting by doing what I just said). Stop being naive, people. Seriously.

  38. biebergirl1212 July 30, 2010 at 4:02 am #

    i’m realllly interested in the rude dm’s he has sent ! haha. i’ve never seen/heard of them. can u post some somewhere maybe ? or say what they’ve said. i don’t see why/what he’d need to curse to people about. but, lmao. i think it’s hot as helll that he swears.

  39. biebbbb July 30, 2010 at 7:33 pm #

    not all of us have friends to hang out with tho…?

  40. Amalie July 30, 2010 at 11:08 pm #

    AMEN! SO TRUE!

  41. Annika July 31, 2010 at 4:37 am #

    i really would like to see what he said on the dms.. is it possible for you guys to publish just one of them?

  42. swaglikebieber August 3, 2010 at 10:10 am #

    I really want to know wut the dms said whoever runs bieber heiress if possible please email these dms to me I totally understand if u can’t though if u can’t thanx anyway ❤ love ur blog I'm only 10 but I'm super mature and I skipped 2 grades so I like to act like I'm older my eamial is swaglikebeadles@gmail.com

  43. Fiona August 10, 2010 at 6:47 am #

    OMG you guys probably ace all your English essays. Like your blogs are amazing and well written. LOVE IT!
    j/w how old are the writers?

  44. Fiona August 10, 2010 at 6:50 am #

    oh and the blog is so true, those crazed fans need to get over themselves.

  45. Allison September 6, 2010 at 12:11 am #

    agreed, agreed, agreed.
    oh, and did i say agreed?

  46. julie December 29, 2010 at 10:43 pm #

    Agree with you 100%

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